My husband has been in the military for about 15 years. This is a new season in our lives right now, he’s getting promoted!!! Because of this, I started to think back to when I first married my husband and through A Lot of trial and errors, I learned my way of navigating the military world. Deployments, deployments, deployments… When I first got married my husband went on SO MANY deployments that it literally broke me, I was devastated, I felt like… “this is what the military is about? I didn’t get married to be single.