This episode and the sex and marriage series, I’m starting is VERY EXPLICIT! Nothing too crazy but Meygan and I do “Go there!” and we share explicit details.
Now, if you are a faithful listener and you listened to my first couple of episodes where I talk about doing business God’s way as a mom, wife and everything in between, is still the case for this podcast and the things I share on the blog. I will share different topics surrounding business, marriage and family, I believe God desires that we experience an abundant lifestyle in EVERY area of your life (John 10:10), which includes marriage, sex, business, family, etc.
I would like to share these topics and be very transparent and authentic about it and share what the bible says about each of these topics. I will also share in these topics but will have experts sharing their experience and testimony as well.
My desire is that you are open to God’s word and the way He does things, concerning the topics I mentioned above and then some. God has the answer and my desire is that I share that on my blog and podcast. My testimony in having my husband notice that I didn’t care for him because of how focused I was in my business, almost destroyed my marriage and what God showed me was that, He desires, that I’m successful in EVERY area and I want to share that same thing, God shared with me in His word and through testimonies.
How can a spouse that is not romantic, show love to their spouse?
– Do the research (Free resources)
– 21 date night ideas
– Coach your spouse
Getting down to the Good Stuff… SEX…
–Tips shared on the podcast are NOT for those that have been sexually abused or hurt in the past, Meygan and I encourage you to seek professional help to get healed from the past hurts. Not getting the help needed to heal from your past can hinder the intimacy in the marriage between you and the spouse.
Women Do want to feel connected emotionally (90%) and physically (10%). For males it is the opposite, Emotionally (10%) and Physically (90%), God’s sense of humor!
Men… Women NEED foreplay!
The KEY to having GREAT SEX in the bedroom with your spouse…
-SERVING and HONORING your spouse
Not in the mood, here are some tips…
-Schedule sex with your spouse.
-Use code words
-Think positive about your spouse (Mentally prepare, even Journal, 5 things about your spouse)
Build the friendship with your spouse.
Rules across the board for married couples:
-No Third party
-Nothing that hurts the other spouse
Sex is TRULY a gift to marriage!
God created sex for me to enjoy in marriage! This was VERY freeing for me to really express myself in my marriage.
-God wants to see us happy, enjoying our spouses
-Your spouses wants to see you happy as well during sex.
Communicate, Communicate, Communicate!!!